FERRO, BATTEY & EUCALITTO, LLC
Divorce, Family, and Matrimonial Lawyers
FERRO, BATTEY & EUCALITTO, LLC
Divorce, Family, and Matrimonial Lawyers
Preparing for a divorce may seem daunting. Whether you are contemplating your options or have decided you’re ready to being filing for a divorce, consider the following tips from our knowledgeable family law firm as you take the next steps:
Comparing yourself to a friend or family member who went through a divorce is probably not helpful. You most likely do not have all of the facts about your friend or family member’s legal separation, and even if you did, no two cases are the same. It is best to contact a professional who can give you advice that is specific to your family and case.
Where are your bank accounts located? What funds are in your name? Do you have copies of your tax returns? Have you reviewed them? Having this data at your fingertips will make things easier if you are about to be filing for divorce. However, don’t panic if you do not have this information. Your divorce lawyer can help you get it once the case starts.
While it may sound obvious, many people do not have bank or credit card accounts in their sole name. It is important to make sure you have access to funds in your own name and your own credit card when preparing for a divorce. Having both will give you some financial security during the case. In addition, your spouse is not required to maintain you on his or her credit card during the divorce.
Facebook, Instagram and other social media platforms have become a major part of everyday life. No matter how private you believe a post to be, there is usually a way for someone to still find it. The same holds true for text messages, e-mails and iCloud accounts. Consider how a post, text or e-mail could affect your divorce if your soon-to-be ex was to find it.
Connecticut is a no-fault state, meaning that neither spouse needs to establish fault to actually file for divorce. Because Connecticut is a no-fault state, many people are under the mistaken assumption that fault (i.e. infidelity, abusive behavior, improper spending) is irrelevant to their legal separation. That is not the case, however. Our alimony attorneys have seen that courts can consider the fault of either spouse when making property division and alimony orders.
While mediation is becoming an increasingly popular alternative, it is not right for every case. Sometimes, mediation is used by one spouse to take advantage of the other spouse, who may be more likely to give in. In addition, many mediators are not attorneys and cannot prepare the documents necessary for filing for divorce; mediators are also prohibited from giving advice and advocating for either party.
Custody cases are often won by proving that you are the better parent. During a custody case, every action or inaction of each parent will be scrutinized. Therefore, it is important to continue as an involved parent. If you aren’t already familiar, become familiar with your children’s friends, doctors, and teachers.
Our child custody attorneys also recommend keeping a daily diary. Contemporaneously noting whether you helped your daughter with her science project or that your spouse missed your son’s parent teacher conference will help you remember the specifics of each incident later on in the case.
If you are ready to take the next step, please reach out to the team at Ferro, Battey & Eucalitto, LLC. Our family law firm is committed to helping you understand your rights and being there with you to navigate through the divorce process. We understand that no two divorces are the same; therefore, our divorce lawyers, alimony attorneys, and child support lawyers take a unique, individual approach to every case. For more information or to schedule a consultation in the Fairfield, Greenwich, New Canaan, Stamford, and Westport, CT area, please contact us today.
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